Hilde Weisert

Looking Back on My Libido
November 26, 2025 Weisert Hilde

Looking Back on My Libido

 

It wasn’t love; it wasn’t even sex—
that mad motor thrumming from below,
sending out a single wave the length
of me, its surge thrilling every organ
into obedient synchrony. Then, my eyes
saw only beauty; my ears heard
only the rarest intellect; my hands
brimmed in prayer for the one
necessary touch,

 

That wave gathering every sensate
part of me into one obedient motion,
a school of fish trained toward
the luminescent other, all
toward, toward, until—

 

until some discordant
foible glimpsed in a sudden
clearing returns the wave
to its inexorable ebb, time
after time, after time.
Libido,
now a vanished curiosity,
how much of my life
I gave to you
thinking it was love,
thinking it was me.

Hilde Weisert’s My Libido poetry collection, The Scheme of Things, was published by David Robert Books in 2015. Her poems have appeared in magazines including Ms., The Cincinnati Review, The New York Times, Plume, The Cortland Review, Prairie Schooner, The Sun, Southern Poetry Review, Lips, and several anthologies including Choice Words (Haymarket Books, 2020) and What They Bring: The Poetry of Migration and Immigration, IP Books, 2020). Her essay, “Randall Jarrell and Adrienne Rich: A Found Guide to Mutual Admiration,” was published in the Fall 2019 Hudson Review. Poetry awards include the 2017 Gretchen Warren Award (New England Poetry Club), 2016 Tiferet Journal Poetry Award, 2008 Lois Cranston Poetry Award for “Finding Wilfred Owen Again,” selected by Ursula Le Guin, and fellowships from the New Jersey State Council on the Arts and the Virginia Center for the Creative Arts (2008, 2016, 2020). She is president of the Sandisfield Arts Center, a small arts center in western Massachusetts, and lives in Sandisfield and Chapel Hill, North Carolina. Website: www.hildeweisert.com